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Sent to Relationship Experts January 08 11:09 PM

i''m 22 and have been into this wonderful LDR with this guy for over 5 years. we started on net and dint meet for 3 years though for last 2 years we had about 12 meetings whenever he visited..love is perfect between us just dat we had to rely alot on phone (we still talk like 4 hours a day on phone) lately to add thrill we were havin fantasy phone sex it was great and then we included a random guy in our phone sex adventures this went on pretty good till recently when i realized dat i dont feel sexually attacted to my guy anymore and its only the new guy who excites me-i''m sure i''v no feelings for this new guy but whenever i try to recall / imagine being intimate wid my guy i endup feelin awkward but when i try to imagine this other guy it works..i''m confused wat to do about it-i wanna marry my love but confused what to do about this loss of intimacy (its only on my part my guy still feel da same attraction for me even after knowing this all trouble) i''m not sure what to do..

 

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January 8 11:17 PM (8 minutes and 2 seconds later)
         
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Hello Distressed,

Have you been intimate with him yet?

Do you still talk to the random guy?

Is the relationship still long distance?

Chase



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January 8 11:23 PM (5 minutes and 47 seconds later)
         
Reply to Ms Chase's Post: well i'v been physical with my guy who is still long distance and with this new guy i jus had a very short meeting wid him once some six months ago and we just madeout now my guy is comming to see me next week and i'm unsure and confused how to face him since i'm feeling awkward how will i respond to him,due to lack of intimacy regarding him, this other guy is also insisting me to see him soon and i'm being honest i'm feeling tempted too..dunno what to do i need adivse..please help what should i do..
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