been married a little over one year. but seems like all we do lately is argue. we dont really share any of the same interests.. both in mid 30's, third marriage each. i work swing shift. when i get my days off, we cant agree on anything to do ,so we end up doing nothing...i like to drink beer on my days off, but the wife doesnt like to drink. we very rarely have sex or anything. we have no outside friends to speak of. any suggestions