yes there is....throw away all the porn materials you have, then dont date anyone for awhile. learn to love yourself....emotionally. learn who you are inside. preocupy your time with other things, like a hobby, or clubs such as computer clubs, drama clubs, anything that does not relate to sexual associations.
you are the master of your life, and God is the author. you have the power to choose what you want to do.
let yourself be involved in sports, bikeriding, rollerblading, something that is thrilling and exillerating. this will give your brain endorphans that sex gives you. what your brain is craving are endorphans, a chemical inside the brain that gives pleasure, and good feelings. masterbation gets that easily, but, it takes your life away....spend it doing things you can talk to other people about, like " i went sky-diving!!! wow !!! nit was great!!!!" you can tell some one," wow!!!! what an orgasm i had alone last night!!!".....get it?
you can get the same thrill or effect by sports, or something cool, like surfing, skydiving, skateboarding.
just throw away the porn....it's an addiction, and like all addictions....can be overcome.
good luck.
p.s. then, you will be able to get together someday with someone, and it will be like magic, because you gave yourself a rest from that mindset.
Edited by sharonfrost on August 3 2005 at 6:39 PM
Sharon Frost
I JOHN 3-16:
For God so loved the World, that He gave His only begotton Son, that whosoever believith on Him, shall not perish, but have everlasting Life.
God is Good....All the time.