You need to post some additional information about your situation. Information such as:
How old are you? How old is your girlfriend? How long have you been
going together? Is this relationship supposed to be 'exclusive'(meaning
neither one of you is to date anyone else)? is your relationship with
this girl sexual?
You also need to describe, honestly, what this friendship-- between
your girlfriend and this other guy -- is like. This means: How long
have THEY known each other? Were they friends before she met you? Were
they friends before she started going with you? What do they do as
friends talk, have coffee. Is their relationship sexual?
You will need to answer these questions -- and to provide any other
information you think will be helpful -- before anyone could give you
any meaningful in helpful advice in this situation.
Edited by Oreport on June 23 2004 at 5:32 PM
Counselor /listener/collaborative problem solver. Thanks!