Customer (name blocked for privacy): hi
Ms Chase: hello, welcome to Just answer, my name is chase, what can I call you?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): tawana is fine.
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: Hi Tawana
Ms Chase: may I ask you a few questions?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): sure
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: how long have you been married?
Ms Chase: what are your ages?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): since sept 4th 08
Ms Chase: Has he always accused you of cheating?
Ms Chase: if not when did it start?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): no not always
Ms Chase: Are all of your arguments about cheating?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): this started a few months ago when we saw an ex of mine while at the gas station
Customer (name blocked for privacy): yes all the time
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: did something happen that made him think this?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): he says he didnt like the way my ex looked at me
Ms Chase: do you think he's cheating?
Ms Chase: well Im sure you told him that it doesnt matter how your ex looked at you, if you didnt look at your ex a certain way, thats all that matters
Customer (name blocked for privacy): i dont know but i never got the feeling that he was doing anything
Ms Chase: and thats it...he saw your ex at the gas station and its been arguing every since?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): i think he is bipolar
Customer (name blocked for privacy): crazy or something
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: has he ever said anything about being in therapy or on medication?
Ms Chase: how long were you dating him before you got married?
Ms Chase: and where did you meet?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): he says that he needs to talk to someone about stuff
Ms Chase: .
Customer (name blocked for privacy): and his mother says he has never been like this about anyone before
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: people are under a lot of stress nowadays, and some people are not holding up under the pressure too well
Ms Chase: is he scaring you?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): no he doesnt scare me at all
Customer (name blocked for privacy): i just dont understand how one minute i am on a pedistal and the next i feel disrespected
Ms Chase: .
Customer (name blocked for privacy): just from his accusations
Ms Chase: I can understand that
Ms Chase: Also in such a short time
Ms Chase: you have let him know that you wouldn't do something like this
Ms Chase: have you told his mother whats going on to see if she can talk to him?
Ms Chase: If he said he needs to talk to someone, I would set that up right away
Customer (name blocked for privacy): yes i tell him this all the time and it seems to only add fuel to the fire
Ms Chase: maybe have him go in for therapy, and then maybe couples therapy
Ms Chase: If he's just not listening, then it could be a mental issue
Ms Chase: and there's nothing you can do about that except help him get therapy
Customer (name blocked for privacy): who do i call
Ms Chase: think about it, a person who is being reasonable would see that that doesn't make any sense
Ms Chase: do you belong to a church?
Ms Chase: if so, you can talk to your pastor and ask for a recommendation
Customer (name blocked for privacy): yes and he does too
Ms Chase: if not, you can give me your city/state and I will see what I can find in your area
Ms Chase: Is money an issue?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): but it only works for the day
Customer (name blocked for privacy): yes
Customer (name blocked for privacy): i am the provider right now
Ms Chase: .
Customer (name blocked for privacy): he does feel acertain way about this
Ms Chase: what only works for a day?
Ms Chase: how does he feel?
Ms Chase: .
Customer (name blocked for privacy): i feel that he feels sorry for himself
Customer (name blocked for privacy): and wants to be a baby
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: how old are the two of you?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): he is 31 and i am 26
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: Has his mother spoken to him?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): yes and its like he hides things from her and always tells her we resolved things when we dont
Ms Chase: .
Customer (name blocked for privacy): what do i do
Ms Chase: because you're saying he won't stop, I recommend he speak to someone
Ms Chase: would you like me to look up some places in your area or do you want to speak to your pastor first?
Ms Chase: hello, welcome to Just answer, my name is chase, what can I call you?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): tawana is fine.
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: Hi Tawana
Ms Chase: may I ask you a few questions?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): sure
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: how long have you been married?
Ms Chase: what are your ages?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): since sept 4th 08
Ms Chase: Has he always accused you of cheating?
Ms Chase: if not when did it start?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): no not always
Ms Chase: Are all of your arguments about cheating?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): this started a few months ago when we saw an ex of mine while at the gas station
Customer (name blocked for privacy): yes all the time
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: did something happen that made him think this?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): he says he didnt like the way my ex looked at me
Ms Chase: do you think he's cheating?
Ms Chase: well Im sure you told him that it doesnt matter how your ex looked at you, if you didnt look at your ex a certain way, thats all that matters
Customer (name blocked for privacy): i dont know but i never got the feeling that he was doing anything
Ms Chase: and thats it...he saw your ex at the gas station and its been arguing every since?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): i think he is bipolar
Customer (name blocked for privacy): crazy or something
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: has he ever said anything about being in therapy or on medication?
Ms Chase: how long were you dating him before you got married?
Ms Chase: and where did you meet?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): he says that he needs to talk to someone about stuff
Ms Chase: .
Customer (name blocked for privacy): and his mother says he has never been like this about anyone before
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: people are under a lot of stress nowadays, and some people are not holding up under the pressure too well
Ms Chase: is he scaring you?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): no he doesnt scare me at all
Customer (name blocked for privacy): i just dont understand how one minute i am on a pedistal and the next i feel disrespected
Ms Chase: .
Customer (name blocked for privacy): just from his accusations
Ms Chase: I can understand that
Ms Chase: Also in such a short time
Ms Chase: you have let him know that you wouldn't do something like this
Ms Chase: have you told his mother whats going on to see if she can talk to him?
Ms Chase: If he said he needs to talk to someone, I would set that up right away
Customer (name blocked for privacy): yes i tell him this all the time and it seems to only add fuel to the fire
Ms Chase: maybe have him go in for therapy, and then maybe couples therapy
Ms Chase: If he's just not listening, then it could be a mental issue
Ms Chase: and there's nothing you can do about that except help him get therapy
Customer (name blocked for privacy): who do i call
Ms Chase: think about it, a person who is being reasonable would see that that doesn't make any sense
Ms Chase: do you belong to a church?
Ms Chase: if so, you can talk to your pastor and ask for a recommendation
Customer (name blocked for privacy): yes and he does too
Ms Chase: if not, you can give me your city/state and I will see what I can find in your area
Ms Chase: Is money an issue?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): but it only works for the day
Customer (name blocked for privacy): yes
Customer (name blocked for privacy): i am the provider right now
Ms Chase: .
Customer (name blocked for privacy): he does feel acertain way about this
Ms Chase: what only works for a day?
Ms Chase: how does he feel?
Ms Chase: .
Customer (name blocked for privacy): i feel that he feels sorry for himself
Customer (name blocked for privacy): and wants to be a baby
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: how old are the two of you?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): he is 31 and i am 26
Ms Chase: .
Ms Chase: Has his mother spoken to him?
Customer (name blocked for privacy): yes and its like he hides things from her and always tells her we resolved things when we dont
Ms Chase: .
Customer (name blocked for privacy): what do i do
Ms Chase: because you're saying he won't stop, I recommend he speak to someone
Ms Chase: would you like me to look up some places in your area or do you want to speak to your pastor first?
