I have just ended a marriage of 23 years, 6 of them emotionally abusive but I am finding increasingly difficult to cope on a daily basis as I miss the husband I used to know. He has drastically changed over the past 6 years, like a Jeckyl and Hyde, I was walking on "egg shells", never knowing what mood he was going to be in. I had to watch what I said of did as he would twist everything around and then blame me for being confrontational which I am not and have never been. I"m really quiete placid and easy going. Cabn you give me some tips on moving past all of this and stgart to live again.